Need some advice.
Long story short. I?m 38, male, married for 10 years now
I have ED for as long as I can remember, and been using Viagra and Cialis for several years, as to keep a healthy sexual relation with my wife, but it?s crap anyway, since when she wants to have sex, and I haven?t taken any pill, I can?t get a hard erection, or I lose my erection in the middle of it
Been using porn for the past 20 years or so (since I was 17) and I finally discover this website and others talking about PIED, and everything starts to make sense. This is my 10th day with no PMO, and so far so good. I really don?t miss porn that much, but since I work alone in my office, is not easy to stay away from porn and masturbation??but I will, I know I can and I will
I haven?t told my wife that my ED is probably a PIED, and that I have been using porn for as long as I can remember?..mainly because I don?t want her to think her husband is a ?degenerate?, and because I want to be 100% sure I have PIED?.I can?t risk to have another wrong diagnose since I went to have all kind of medical test (even a dopler scan) in order to dismiss any physical problem (I didn?t have any)
The big question is: Shall I tell my wife about PIED at this early stage of rebooting. I really want to have PIED, because that means that there is a cure to my problem?.but I?m not 100% sure my ED is because of heavy use of porn and I don?t know I will get better or not, so I don?t want to give her false hopes.
And the second question is: I?m going on a ?romantic? trip with my wife (no children) in 1 month from now. Obviously I want to have sex with my wife and so will she ?.Having sex during the trip will affect my rebooting process??.....I still intend to stay away from porn and masturbation, but I don?t know if having sex will affect or not my rebooting process
Thanks for all the advice, comments and personal experiences
Long story short. I?m 38, male, married for 10 years now
I have ED for as long as I can remember, and been using Viagra and Cialis for several years, as to keep a healthy sexual relation with my wife, but it?s crap anyway, since when she wants to have sex, and I haven?t taken any pill, I can?t get a hard erection, or I lose my erection in the middle of it
Been using porn for the past 20 years or so (since I was 17) and I finally discover this website and others talking about PIED, and everything starts to make sense. This is my 10th day with no PMO, and so far so good. I really don?t miss porn that much, but since I work alone in my office, is not easy to stay away from porn and masturbation??but I will, I know I can and I will
I haven?t told my wife that my ED is probably a PIED, and that I have been using porn for as long as I can remember?..mainly because I don?t want her to think her husband is a ?degenerate?, and because I want to be 100% sure I have PIED?.I can?t risk to have another wrong diagnose since I went to have all kind of medical test (even a dopler scan) in order to dismiss any physical problem (I didn?t have any)
The big question is: Shall I tell my wife about PIED at this early stage of rebooting. I really want to have PIED, because that means that there is a cure to my problem?.but I?m not 100% sure my ED is because of heavy use of porn and I don?t know I will get better or not, so I don?t want to give her false hopes.
And the second question is: I?m going on a ?romantic? trip with my wife (no children) in 1 month from now. Obviously I want to have sex with my wife and so will she ?.Having sex during the trip will affect my rebooting process??.....I still intend to stay away from porn and masturbation, but I don?t know if having sex will affect or not my rebooting process
Thanks for all the advice, comments and personal experiences