Really need some advice.. haven't had sex for years!

Glad I found this place.. without going into detail I haven't had sex for many years and during that time I infrequently watched porn but masturbated often. I'm in mid 30s and began looking to find opportunity to get my sexual confidence back and attempted to sleep with a girl on a couple occasions and my little friend didn't move a millimeter. This had made me avoid dating all together which can ruin a man's life. I pretty much never get hard unless I touch myself (not sure if that's normal) but I don't need porn to get hard.. my question is how can I get my confidence back.. I've been thinking of getting massages to get use to being touched by a woman again.. or should I use viagra a few times.? If you have some insight or encouraging words please say it.. you may change this young man's life.. thank you!

.. I can sometimes be very aroused but my little man stays limp unless I use touch.. can't tell if i also have physical problems..

Jmanii said:

I pretty much never get hard unless I touch myself (not sure if that's normal)

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It's not.

Jmanii said:

my question is how can I get my confidence back.. I've been thinking of getting massages to get use to being touched by a woman again.. or should I use viagra a few times.? If you have some insight or encouraging words please say it.. you may change this young man's life.. thank you!

.. I can sometimes be very aroused but my little man stays limp unless I use touch.. can't tell if i also have physical problems..

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I'd suggest do a full reboot and let's see what happens.

you must reboot, without reboot you will never get back to normal.

if you can get hard with touch, you do not have a physical problem. people with physical problems cant get hard with touch or porn.

im in the same place as you. no viagra, no massages just go out and meet women. it will be hella awkward, uncomfortable and all that. that is necessary. think about how to through it instead of avoiding it. good luck.

Hello Everyone,

Glad I found this place.. without going into detail I haven't had sex for many years and during that time I infrequently watched porn but masturbated often. I'm in mid 30s and began looking to find opportunity to get my sexual confidence back and attempted to sleep with a girl on a couple occasions and my little friend didn't move a millimeter. This had made me avoid dating all together which can ruin a man's life. I pretty much never get hard unless I touch myself (not sure if that's normal) but I don't need porn to get hard.. my question is how can I get my confidence back.. I've been thinking of getting massages to get use to being touched by a woman again.. or should I use viagra a few times.? If you have some insight or encouraging words please say it.. you may change this young man's life.. thank you!

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