Slimshaddy
New Member
Hello myself Rahul and I am 27 years old. I got married 4 months back to my partner with a relationship of 5 years.
we mutually decided to have intercourse after marriage. We both are virgins.
In the morning erection is normal , I can masturbate normally.
After marriage when I try to insert , I lose my erection instantly. I don't know what's causing this and I am not able to understand which is ruining our married life.
Another thing is that when she goes down on me I instantly get my erection back.
Now why I am writing here , the things is I am watching porn for more than 10 years and I prefer watching videos of oral sex and i masturbate to the same. I continued this even after my marriage.
I came across this forum and then decided to quit watching porn or see Instagram.
Before marriage when I used to put my hand on her vagina I was fine doing it when she was wearing her underpants but I used to hesitate a little when she wasn't wearing anything.
It stays hard while doing foreplay. If I try missionary position I lose erection completely so we decided to try cowgirl position in which I can maintain erection but she says she can't do it since it hurts a lot. And I lose erection after 2-3 tries.
Now I don't have any idea if this is performance anxiety or PIED.
I also tried Viagra but it didn't help me either.
we mutually decided to have intercourse after marriage. We both are virgins.
In the morning erection is normal , I can masturbate normally.
After marriage when I try to insert , I lose my erection instantly. I don't know what's causing this and I am not able to understand which is ruining our married life.
Another thing is that when she goes down on me I instantly get my erection back.
Now why I am writing here , the things is I am watching porn for more than 10 years and I prefer watching videos of oral sex and i masturbate to the same. I continued this even after my marriage.
I came across this forum and then decided to quit watching porn or see Instagram.
Before marriage when I used to put my hand on her vagina I was fine doing it when she was wearing her underpants but I used to hesitate a little when she wasn't wearing anything.
It stays hard while doing foreplay. If I try missionary position I lose erection completely so we decided to try cowgirl position in which I can maintain erection but she says she can't do it since it hurts a lot. And I lose erection after 2-3 tries.
Now I don't have any idea if this is performance anxiety or PIED.
I also tried Viagra but it didn't help me either.