Did I relapse or fuck up my reboot?

Hi guys,

I'm on day 50 of my reboot and last night I had a wet porn dream. I climaxed in about 3 seconds before I realized what was going on. Did I fuck up my recovery or is it not a big deal?

Not a big deal. Its actually quite normal and wont affect your reboot.
You didnt intentionally dream about porn so theres no harm done

j7ll7 said:

Hi guys,

I'm on day 50 of my reboot and last night I had a wet porn dream. I climaxed in about 3 seconds before I realized what was going on. Did I fuck up my recovery or is it not a big deal?

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Yeah, if it was a dream and you didn't specifically PMO I wouldn't say it messed up your reboot. Personal action is the key here. You have to personally seek out porn then MO to it for it to constitute as a reset imo. Unless you lucid dream, you can't really control that sort of thing. I heard it's a normal part of this process for some.

Agreed.  If you didn't make the decision to fantasize or ejaculate, then it isn't a relapse. 

Your brain and body will do a lot of readjusting because it is so used to getting porn/masturbation on a hyper regular basis (I say hyper regular because we never evolved to be so stimulated), so expect weird things.  This is basically a flashback.  They're involuntary, though a person can let the thoughts stay once they barge in uninvited and that can lead to a legitimate relapse.  That isn't what happened to you.

Day 50 is pretty darn good.  Good luck!

It happened to me as i had a dream about sex and M in the dream, it felt so real that i relized its a dream mins after waking up. U didnt fuck up ur reboot as its out of ur control so u r okay