Hi guys.
I'm on day 3 of quitting:
- PMO (heavy user, since I was around 14, 30 now). Sessions of 8 hours straight are not uncommon, mostly during the night.
- smoking tobacco, every day around 20 cigs.
- smoking marijuana, every night 1 or 2 joints
- drinking alcohol - every night around 2 or 3 cans
Other than that I'm prescribed with dexamphetamine for AD(H)D, and with lorazepam for anxiety problems. I still use these two - though I'd like to quit, as I used to combine all these drugs to get in to this fantasy porn world. That's also the reason I stopped with all the things mentioned above. I can't just quit one of those. I have to break the pattern.
I'd have to tell you. Yesterdaynight was bad - but today - it literally feels like every inch of my body is burning.
Like insects crawling in my skin, like my fingers, toes; my limps are slowly being stretched out of their sockets.
In the last hour I've been going from screaming my lungs out in a pillow and almost smashing my head into the wall, to crying on on the floor in fetal position, feeling so utterly hopeless.
Knowing that if I relapse - I'll never be happy. I'll slowly kill myself. Emotionally (PMO), but physically also (the smoking, bad eating habits, alcohol are really taking their toll).
I know about the way the brain works. Screaming for dopamine. Receptors that call out even louder for that hit that I deny them.
So my question... Will this awful pain lessen?
Is it even physically possible to resist this urge, an urge that lasts for hours and hours a day, only to stop for a short while - to return even stronger after? Is it possible, without being restrained, like in a clinic?
Am I taking on too many things at once? I just don't know what to do anymore.
Thanks for reading in advance, and for your time.
Daymare
I'm on day 3 of quitting:
- PMO (heavy user, since I was around 14, 30 now). Sessions of 8 hours straight are not uncommon, mostly during the night.
- smoking tobacco, every day around 20 cigs.
- smoking marijuana, every night 1 or 2 joints
- drinking alcohol - every night around 2 or 3 cans
Other than that I'm prescribed with dexamphetamine for AD(H)D, and with lorazepam for anxiety problems. I still use these two - though I'd like to quit, as I used to combine all these drugs to get in to this fantasy porn world. That's also the reason I stopped with all the things mentioned above. I can't just quit one of those. I have to break the pattern.
I'd have to tell you. Yesterdaynight was bad - but today - it literally feels like every inch of my body is burning.
Like insects crawling in my skin, like my fingers, toes; my limps are slowly being stretched out of their sockets.
In the last hour I've been going from screaming my lungs out in a pillow and almost smashing my head into the wall, to crying on on the floor in fetal position, feeling so utterly hopeless.
Knowing that if I relapse - I'll never be happy. I'll slowly kill myself. Emotionally (PMO), but physically also (the smoking, bad eating habits, alcohol are really taking their toll).
I know about the way the brain works. Screaming for dopamine. Receptors that call out even louder for that hit that I deny them.
So my question... Will this awful pain lessen?
Is it even physically possible to resist this urge, an urge that lasts for hours and hours a day, only to stop for a short while - to return even stronger after? Is it possible, without being restrained, like in a clinic?
Am I taking on too many things at once? I just don't know what to do anymore.
Thanks for reading in advance, and for your time.
Daymare