To all the men here, please use Father's Day as a day to lock in that commitment to recover from porn. Do it for yourself, do it for your children. You are the living example of how to be a Dad. When porn is in your brain, there is not a lot left over. I don't think anyone want their children to make tne same chioces they did. So live by example! For your sons, show them how to love their future wife. Show them the care and consideration she desrves. Most importantly show them your wife is "the love of your life"! Show your daughters the kind of husband they should have. One that is not looking at others, one that has eyes only for them. Show them the kind of respect they deserve. Show them how a man can be the "love of their life"!
My husband and I have used this struggle to change how we treat each other. Our grandchildren call us "lovebirds". What a change! We were never fighting etc. But we changed and started living by example. It has been rough at times over the last 7 years, but once we went through the hardest part, we started living in a way that shows the world we are in love.
For those here that are not in a relationship, squirrel this away. Then when you meet "the one" remember this. Your marriage and life is the model for your children. Live by example!!
My husband and I have used this struggle to change how we treat each other. Our grandchildren call us "lovebirds". What a change! We were never fighting etc. But we changed and started living by example. It has been rough at times over the last 7 years, but once we went through the hardest part, we started living in a way that shows the world we are in love.
For those here that are not in a relationship, squirrel this away. Then when you meet "the one" remember this. Your marriage and life is the model for your children. Live by example!!
