My story of success

Hi, fellow fapstronauts,

This is my story: PMO since I was 20 (video, magazines, erotic images, etc), since 31 years it was high-speed internet P, it changed with periods when I lived with women and had regular sex (sometimes with problems like DE, but I didn't understand why). When I was 38-39 I spent a lot of time alone and did a lot of PMO out of boredom. Now I am 40. Last year I understood where the roots of problem where - but only when I hit the bottom: I had sex with a nice girl, and I can't get O, and then my dick fainted. She left me and never came back. It was a disaster. I understood that it was because of P, and I decided to quit. It was 22 of September 2017. It ruined my life and my health for a long time, and thank God I stopped it.

Then I found rebootnation and started the journal here. The stories and articles from this site were very useful. I gone through flatline and periods of sadness, and even relapsed when I listed dating sites. But I knew the only important thing: NEVER RETURN TO PORN, and everything is going to be OK.

In November I felt much better, I tried relationships with a girl, and felt excitement being aroung her, but she kept distance and we didn't make love. In the end of January 2018 I met another girl, and on 8 of February we had sex. We also had sex 9, 10, 11 of February, and today, 12 of February we are going to make sex again. Moreover, the dating sites are not a problem for me anymore.

That's what I want to say to every guy who comes here:
Remember, we were born in this world not to yank our penises alone in the dark solitude. We were born to love beautiful women, kiss them, caress them, make sex with them. BE A MAN, AND BE PROUD OF IT. Never return to PM, this is a curse of modern mankind.

Never think you cannot do this. Several months is not a long term to be healed. Be strong, there are a lot of other pleasures in this life - art, food, sport, books, movies, etc. One sex with a girl is surely much better than hundred sessions of PMO. Respect yourself, never touch that shit again.

Thanks for everybody who keep this site working, and to all guys who supported me here. Good luck to everybody and greetings from Russia.
This is my journal:
http://legacy.rebootnation.org/index.php?topic=14407.0

Thanks Red Bear. Great to hear you have done so well, reading success stories is uplifting for me.

Not at all!
Keep restraining from pmo - and it works. You will be cured.
And very very good help gives a sexy girl in your bed.
For the first couple of times with her you can use a 1/4 of viagra pill, just not to be nervous, and then it works better and better all the time.

Question.  How often did you fantasize about your girlfriend?  I am about a month into no PMO.  Im not finding it too difficult because I'm focusing on my new relationship, but I'm having intense fantasies about the last time we made out.  I'm wondering if this helps or hurts

I went through flatline and then let me do MO, fantasizing my ex girls. I think it helped to restart the healthy neuropaths in my brain. When I felt better I started to MO fantasizing my new girlfriends, and my brain works correctly, no PIED at all.

Some problems are still here: a desensibility syndrome - it's very hard to get orgasm having oral sex , and the same thing with condoms. Physical stimulation seems to be not enough. I help myself with mind stimulation, repeating some sexual words. Me and my girl talk in bed, it excites me. Actually I am horny all the day when I think about her and what we do together.

How many days did you do no pmo? Did you have full pied?

yes, i had full pied. with a girl in a bed.
after 24 days of no pmo i felt much better.
i felt cured 100% after 3 months or so.
i often read hear that you should get rid of sexual thougts and stuff, but it seems to me that remembering my real sex life during mo was a good thing for returning libido. i must notice i am 40 y.o.

Did you get any WD durOmg revolt? I?ve had like 4/5 and one last night. Hoping this is over soon

I don't know what it is.

Wet dreams sorry during reboot

no whatsoever.
but i had strong morning wood and strong erections often in the night.

Any success story where the guy goes back to consistent quality success is a winner with me!! Thanks loads for sharing.

good one

Congratulations!! Every new success story is new dose of motivation. Thanks for sharing.